IF THE HUSBAND STOPPED LOVING
Do you think your spouse has fallen out of love? Do you feel like a stranger around him? Don't panic, calm down! You can find a way out of any situation.
This problem becomes especially relevant during the crisis in family relationships. Unfortunately, it usually happens suddenly. Although conflict situations with other family members and problems at work can provoke a cooling of feelings.
During this period, the couple has no attraction to each other, and the passion is not the same as it was at the beginning (especially in the first years). We can assume that this is how the crisis in the relationship manifests. What should you do? You need to act carefully and understand how serious the problem is.
Psychologists believe that firstly a woman should understand whether her husband has really fallen out of love or if he can’t feel love because of negative emotions.
To understand this issue, you need to pay attention to the behavior of your husband. If your spouse has no attraction to you anymore and not interested in you, refuses to talk about his affairs, finds fault without a reason, doesn’t want to join dinners, lies, omits, so all of this, undoubtedly, should puzzle you.
First, try to correct this situation on your own.
In such situations psychologists advise to understand the reasons. The most common is a lack of emotional intimacy. It is very important in relationships. To get it back, you need to talk to your spouse about your problems, discuss the accumulated ones, share your dreams and plans. This should be done with warmth, love and tenderness, because the accumulated lump can really destroy your family.
You can visit a psychologist. A specialist will help you to understand the situation, give you good advice and also tell you how to behave. If your husband refuses to go to the psychologist, then go yourself, because the consultation of an experienced specialist will never hurt.
If your efforts were inуааусешму, do not despair, then better think about whether this relationship is necessary. It is possible that you should let your spouse go, because you will not be able to keep anyone by force, and you will not get happiness this way.
No matter what you choose, do not despair, always believe in yourself, happiness will definitely come. Now do what you love. Another variant is to go on an exciting trip to the country that you have always wanted to visit. Soon your emotional state will become normal and it means that your life will get better. Remember that everything depends only on you. So be happy in spite of everything!