DEFINE: BLACK STRIP OR JINX
Good afternoon. My name is Christina.
I noticed that recently bad luck has become my middle name. I can’t even get a job - I’m calling, making an appointment for an interview, I’m going for it, but suddenly the employer calls back and cancels everything. My husband has similar problems. Most recently, our child fell ill. Explain what is going on? Is it a protracted black streak or spoilage caused by someone? I have suspicions that these are tricks of my mother-in-law, who does not treat me very well.
Dear Christina. I authoritatively declare that the described signs are not evil eye or jinx. You should conduct a magical ritual aimed at removing the negative. He will give you confidence.
After that, you should establish relations with all the people with whom you are in conflict. First of all, it concerns your, Christina, mother-in-law. The reasons for the negative attitude towards you on her part may be different, but they should be understood during a confidential conversation. It is imperative to get rid of the existing negative in relations, because otherwise you will have to constantly face problems.
Your daughter, Christina, should be given more freedom by minimizing her custody of her. She must independently build her life, make important decisions, communicate with others. If it seems to you that her decisions are wrong, you should not talk directly about it. Try to hint competently or just let your daughter live her own life. If she needs your advice, she will ask for it.
Regarding your work, I can say the following. You have most likely reached your ceiling. Throughout life, a person has various tasks that he must implement. But there comes a time when the acquired knowledge and accumulated experience reaches its limit. You will not be able to bring benefits in the same volume in practical work. Look for a job that will allow you to pass on your knowledge in organizing activities and managing situations to the next generation. You don’t need to work for earning, so look for another application.
Regarding your spouse, I can say that this is a man with the unrealized potential of a leader. To the date, he has not been given the opportunity to prove himself, since he was engaged in other activities. Let him try to look for a job in which he will lead people. You can even consider opening your own small business. If he is keen on such an idea, then everything will be fine.
It is also important that your husband is a conservative by nature. If an idea with leadership does not suit him, then you should still look at the issue of employment with an expanded look. You should discard your old habits and try to use a non-standard approach in finding a job. He will succeed, because he has enough strength and desire.
There are no magic spells on you, you just need to slightly change your life position and approach to current situations.
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